When I was a Child

Reference: I Cor 13:11

  • I Spoke as a Child
    • That’s Not Fair!   (appropriate when you’re ready to do something about injustice)
    • I Want My Mommy/Daddy!  (appropriate sometimes, but God is our support)
    • Mine’s Better than Yours (appropriate when discussing Theology/Faith – as in, which God is GOD?)
    • My Turn! (your turn to take on responsibilities for yourself & your citizenship)
    • I Want It! (determine the ~it~ of your life & don’t allow distractions)
    • Now! (now is the day of salvation / God is I Am / daily bread)
    • Mine! (actually, all is God’s, and we are stewards whom He will hold responsible)
    • No! (appropriate more often than not)
    • Look at Me/What I did! (this we now ask of God)
      • do our services secretly, not showing off for human reward
      • welcome His examination & correction (search me Oh God)
  • I Thought as a Child
    • Infancy:  I am the center of my universe
    • Preschool – Elementary:  My Parents are the center of my universe
    • Middle-High School:  My Friends are the center of my universe
    • Young Adult: My Career/Future is the center of my universe
    • Marriage: My Spouse is the center of my universe
    • ChildRearing: My Children are the center of my universe
    • Empty Nest: My Spouse is the center of my universe
    • Twilight: My Aging Parents are the center of my universe
    • Dotage: I am the center of my universe (by dementia or entitlement)
    • Reality Strikes – did God become the center of your universe before it was too late?
  • I Behaved as a Child
    • Temper Tantrums
    • Carefree/Careless
    • Consuming without regard to cost or stewardship
    • Play outweighs Responsibility
    • Instruction, Structure & Motivation (and frequent reminders) come from external forces
    • I’m Sorry & Do-Over fixes everything
    • Tit-for-Tat, for good (scratch-my-back) or ill (revenge)
    • Expecting (and getting) Bail-outs from parents or society
    • Built-in Accountability
    • Feedback Loop Cushioned (no harm to the psyche) & Instant (no waiting to learn if a choice was incorrect)
    • Bad language & behavior regarded as ‘cute’ or at least over-tolerated